Are you living out of Love or out of Fear?

I know I mentioned this in yesterday's post, but I am LOVING this book Mastering Your Mean Girl, the no-BS guide to becoming wildly wealthy wealthy, fabulously healthy & bursting with love, by Melissa Ambrosini! I'm only 5 chapters in and there's so much great info already. 

In her book, Melissa talks about finding out which areas of your life you're living out of fear and which areas you're living out of love so you can make the necessary adjustments. Below is her quiz, but I'm warning you, it can be very eye opening! 

Answer YES or NO to each question...

• Are you exercising because you love the way it makes you feel? Or are you exercising because you hate the size of your bum and thighs and you're so desperate to fit into your jeans again?
• Do you eat because you love and honor your temple and you want to give it the best quality nourishment you can? Or do you limit and restrict what you eat out of fear of getting fat? 
• Do you surround yourself with people who are loving, supportive and aligned with your beliefs? Or are you holding on to toxic relationships because you're scared you'll have no friends? 
• Are you with a partner because you simply love to be with that person? Or are you with someone because it's convenient for now and you don't want to be alone?
• Do you do work that you love and enjoy? Or do you go to an uninspiring job that you don't enjoy or like? 
• Do you see money as energy and don't let it control your life? Or are you in debt and can never get on top of your finances? 
• Do you regularly take time out for yourself to sit in stillness, to tune in and reflect? Or do you never take time and can't bear the thought of sitting and stopping and being with yourself and your feelings? 
• Do you believe that we are here to be our unique selves and to be of service to others? Or are you not contributing to the world in any way shape or form? 
• Do you turn to Mother Nature to help support and nourish your body? Or do you opt for the quick option when you are unwell; a pill or potion that you might not need, but will instantly make you feel better?
• Do you not pollute your body because you love your beautiful temple too much? Or do you take drugs and drink regularly even though you know deep down it's not your truth? 

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How many Yes's and No's did you score? You're looking to get the most Yes's in the Love column and the most No's in the Fear column. Check back in regularly to redo this quiz and see how you are progressing! 

I'll be honest, this was most eye opening because I was thinking of how I was answering these questions now vs how I would have answered them even just a year ago. It's been a pretty huge year of personal growth for me! 

I'd love to hear what you're reading right now and what your takeaways are. I'm also always looking for suggestions for my next personal development book! 

xoxo
​Pleace, Love, Glitter & F Bombs